Tantric
practices: How to channel the sexual energy for better health and longevity
and higher consciousness
One of the most powerful natural transformative means we
have at our disposal is via the sex energy. Deep energetic openings have their roots
here. Are you curious about the principles of sex energy? Would it interest you
to elevate your current level of consciousness and sexual potential? As the
title suggests the intent of this paper is to share insights and techniques to
provide readers with practical means to raise energy and explore sexual heights
to their fullest.
How can sex energy be
fully tapped?
The sexual force is the life force or the kundalini energy. It is a subtle energy that
permeates the body, difficult to harness, let alone
build without the force being expended or leaked; for this reason, awareness
and discipline are necessary to channel its potential.
As a man do you feel depleted when you release semen in sex?
How long does it take to replenish this level of energy? As a woman do you feel
that you’d like the act of loving to last longer? In this document you will
find practices for men and women to promote higher spaces and consciousness in
sex—also practices that do not require sexual relations and that contribute to
rejuvenation and higher consciousness, and higher energy levels.
The commingling of yin
and yang (male and female) energy during sex has the potential to create an
energy body greater than the parts. The very presence of ‘higher voltage’ or increased
kundalini energy has the effect of promoting higher awareness, health and
longevity in partners. If partners are practicing praanayam (regulating
breathing so as to channel internal energies) and other energy-raising practices
(such as bandhs, naulis,
visualization and meditation), consciousness can be raised to great degrees
during love-making. *See the supplementary exercises described at the
end of this document.
Sex energy is based on a cyclonic attraction between polar
opposites (yin and yang, male and female
energies). It is one of the primordial powers of the universe, analogous to
the power and mystery of ‘gravity’ in physics. Just the very thought of sex evokes
a tangible excitement in our being. It can raise our energy almost
instantaneously and bring about palpable effects in our body. This fact
suggests that the act of sex can be used as a sacred exploration, to deepen the
feeling of excitement and adventure, to explore it authentically, to bring about
a full-blown radiance. If the sexual excitement is cultivated and fed during the
interplay of partners, then a kind of magic can occur. While holding the thrill
and deep love for our partner and letting our energy bodies merge, it incites
the magic combustion of fire on wood. Praanic energy can be multiplied and spread to every cell of
the body. Even the smallest touch can result in a rare euphoria, a state of surrender.
In the same way as when deep meditation is practiced over longer periods of
time, sexual union can bring about pervasive transformation in sublime ways and
create a space of lasting bliss as atoms get aligned in magical combinations.
In understanding male and female physiologies and how their
energetic channels function, sexual energy can be fully tapped.
The potential lies in the male force being managed optimally.
The explosive urge to discharge semen makes men prone to losing potency early
during the love-making and pre-empting what might have been a higher and more
fulfilling space. When the man’s life force (ojas) flows outward, his praan (energy)
inevitably drops to a low. From an evolutionary standpoint, this is a
phenomenon of the man’s body having first priority to replenish the semen as
quickly as possible, to maximize impregnation for the next encounter. The
quicker a man can impregnate a woman, the more chance of conception arises,
because any number of things can happen during a long period of union (threat
of attack, danger, predators, encounters with rival
mates). Of course, we are not back in the saber-tooth tiger days, so this is
less of a concern in our modern world.
After the man releases, he inevitably sleeps, or loses the
urge to continue love-making or continue raising the kundalini energy. From a
woman’s perspective, if her energy has not been fully tapped, this can be
wholly frustrating. She does not get a chance to activate her shakti
energies and build her praan
and offer her gifts to her partner. Hers is an energy that activates slower,
but is yet more resilient and less volatile. When both partners have unfolded
their potential in the sacred dance, built their energy bodies, their sexual
union has the power to reach new heights.
When both partners are open to exploring and practicing new methods
of how to prolong the act of love-making, they can learn how to better maximize
their gifts to each other. If both men
and women have the knowledge and vision to effect better sex, the practice may
bring many sustainable benefits—i.e. more powerful energy (auras) and
longevity, a natural result that comes through better channelling of sex
energy, like the art of praanayam.
Practice for men
Men have no problem releasing their semen; their work lies
in being able to hold their seed for longer periods, which allows for the
woman’s kundalini energy to build and his too. How to do this?
First, a slow start is a good idea. Starting the love-making
with a realistic pace is a better strategy. Whenever the energy starts to build
past a certain point, the man should let up on movement or rhythm or become
still for a few moments. Mool bandh can be
held continuously to prevent downward flow of energy (*mool bandh is the root chakra lock, see esoteric practices that follow). It
is important that partners have an open line of communication (verbal or
sensed) and he let her know that a limit is being reached and that she should ease
up (movement, incitation, so that he is not over-stimulated beyond the point of
orgasm). Release means the end of the experiment. When the energy is under manageable
limits again, the play can continue until the next threshold is reached, then
the man can hold back his semen again. This successive building and letting go,
and holding mool bandh to
prevent semen from releasing, reprograms the man’s pattern of quick release and
leads to a build-up of energy during the love-making. With practice, the man
can develop a sense of mastery over his semen and not have it master him. He
can make love for a longer period of time without releasing fluid, thus
focussing his attention on the higher spaces of building the praan.
In the beginning this practice may appear difficult or even
frustrating for partners...but even after one attempt at prolonging the
love-making, the result can be so enlivening and sensual that it brings much
more lasting pleasure and vitality.
The goal of the practice is to be able to bring the energy
as close to orgasm as possible, but to not let it go past, or at least not too often. A challenging exercise...as
the tendency to release for the man can be at times overwhelming. The reward,
however, is that better sex can result, more lasting energy and better
satisfaction; multiple joinings per day are possible
without loss of energy—and big energy boosts, including health benefits and
longevity. Beings become more relaxed, they become more confident in their
daily life, energetically attuned and radiating a kind of magnetism that is
built from energy being cultivated in the body and rising up the spine to the
higher chakras rather than flowing downward with fluid release.
This same space can be achieved directly by the combination
of abstinence (celibacy), and praanayam, a process in which the energy is channelled
upward over a sufficient period of time. The best combination, in the authors’
opinion, is to practice all together (praanayam, regulation of vital energies, meditation and
channelling of sex energy in whatever way). For the man, the latter channelling
is a form of abstinence, in that efforts
are made so that semen is not discharged, which is the real
reason for putting energy into the practice described above.
This technique may have to be practiced over a period of
days, or weeks, months to gain proficiency—in the effort to overcome the
tendency to release all in one gush. Even with a bit of regular practice the
result is felt. Continued practice is the goal. If mool bandh is perfected then there is not the
need to pause during lovemaking, and eventually mool bandh can even be dropped.
Some people may argue that this does not sound like a joyful
way to have sex...
Ironically, some practical experimentation will reveal the
fact that the feeling of lingering in the zone just at the edge of orgasm can
be more pleasurable and energy-rich than the fleeting euphoria that follows
release. A sense of heightened transcendence and transformation results from
prolonging the state of sexual high, transmuting it into a more subtle place. This
space created, has the ability to transform atoms, and lift the energy to be a
source of great opening for partners.
A practice that aids in limiting the amount of semen lost
when release is imminent, is to gently but firmly
apply pressure to the base of the generative organ, midway between scrotum and
anus, with the first three fingers. In this way the seminal passages are
blocked while the penile muscles spasm and the fluid does not pass—or at least a
limited amount, thus avoiding the heavy post-coital feeling and inevitable
energy loss that can occur. This is a practical alternative to a full release.
In the midst of practicing, there will likely be slips.
The post-coital feeling or petite morte as the French call it, can
sometimes be experienced as depression or hollowness that results from the expenditure
of the life force. It has also been described as a feeling of a ‘hole’ in the
first chakra. For this reason, frequent release is to be avoided. Or, at least
left to the final act of love-making, and then synchronized with the woman’s
release or shortly thereafter. *It is interesting to note that professional
athletes are warned by coaches not to indulge in sex before games. It’s a
wonder that they’re not also taught to make love in a more holistic way, such
as described above, to energize the body prior to athletic performance rather
than become victim to a post coital feeling.
The act of joining and
raising the energy to a new level has the power of lifting beings right out of
their minds. Great transformational potential exists, which, like meditation,
brings beings closer to their divine nature. Longer love-making sessions are to
be aimed for.
The man, while being inside the woman, can practice
completely relaxing without moving. In this way he becomes used to the
heightened feeling of union, chakra to chakra with his partner. He can relax
into it, smoothing out what would otherwise be an abrupt spike, triggering
release. If the wave of feeling is too intense he can withdraw completely.
After some time, he can start moving again and build the energy to climax, but
not going past, then repeating the process of relaxing into the woman. Such a technique
can be repeated as many times as necessary. In so doing, male partners develop
strength in sex, cultivate endurance, and heighten the woman’s pleasure.
Continued practice of relaxing facilitates the man’s
movements and makes it easier for him to move freely inside the woman without
feeling the need to release. Building energy in such way,
pleases himself and her. With diligence he can approach the brink of
ejaculation, and at ease, and enjoy all the euphoric sensations associated with
release without losing semen. This is the closest a man can come to the female
equivalent of ‘multiple orgasms’. It’s well worth the
effort, as the perfection of this technique is a source of increased praanic power and
ecstatic union.
Women can also practice going to the edge of her orgasm,
working with the man to hold up and relax into the union when energy starts to
build past the threshold. She can thus gain mastery over her own release and
work toward letting go of her fixation, thus letting energy rise upward. See orgasmic upward draw for women below.
It’s a sovereign secret that the spiritual side of sex is to merge both beings
into oneness and dissolve the ego. The higher transformation that occurs has
everything to do with sparking the invisible field rather than exchanging
liquids.
Some quotes from “The Tao of Health, Sex and Longevity” by
Daniel Reid:
- “Taoists
venerate womanhood precisely because women are by nature far closer to the
primordial power of the cosmos than men. A man who clearly understands the
nature of a woman’s sexual superiority has already taken the first step
towards utilizing that superior power. All he needs to do now is practice
the proper skills...”
- “When
ejaculation frequency exceeds the capacity of the body to fully replenish
semen, men experience chronic fatigue, low resistance, irritability and
other symptoms of essence and energy deficiency. They also lose all sexual
interest in their partners. Frequent intercourse with infrequent
ejaculation maintains a man’s interest in the act as well as his capacity
to continue indefinitely until his partner is fully satisfied.”
Practice for women
Women, as receptors of energy, play a different role. When a
woman understands how difficult it is for a man to control his ojas, she will
have compassion for his volatility and work with him to develop his ability to
channel his energy. This ultimately helps her channel hers. She discovers that
what she needs to do to help him, helps her, and thus, both partners achieve a
higher symbiotic state together.
Women can arrive at orgasm and continue to have more orgasms
afterward without any problem at all, or noticeable loss of sex energy (*The exception is in some women after menstruation when iron
is low). This is a physiological power. Men are not privy to that luxury. They
get one chance. If they blow it, then better luck next time.
The natural cycle for full regeneration varies but can be as long as three
weeks to generate the same fullness of potential. So, there is great incentive
to make use of this potential. Thus, it pays off to exercise diligence during
sex.
For women, the art of communicating with her partner is key,
knowing how to be receptive to the man, how to turn the man on, but to be aware
of not turning him on too much so that he loses his ojas. This awareness comprises a
fundamental skill. This may entail women having to work on their need for, or
fixation with, orgasm and their natural tendency to push the man over the edge.
A woman can look at the love-making from a higher perspective. The overall experience
can be a rich one, ready to be enjoyed again and again if both partners
understand the nature of their physiologies and the roles they play. Partners
can look forward to hours of play and continued pleasure if the right steps are
put into place and the sexual power is harnessed—a process developed by
awareness rather than need by partners over time.
This could also entail the woman becoming aware of all the tantric nuances of the moment. For
example, the space of the man’s energy level, her level of energy at the time,
and the contact energy between them. Is he in a higher place? Do I need to let
up on my movement or stop completely? Do I need to let go or give it my all? Do
we need to sit in meditation for a while before we have sex? Do we need to lie
still now, chakra to chakra, feeling our sensuality or visualizing each other’s
energy bodies while entwined? It’s an art of becoming aware of all things, at
all times.
There are as many ways
of having sex as there are unique couplings. The ideas presented are more just
a way of being, a philosophy of having sex in a conscious way that centres on
ways of keeping the energy flowing upward, rather than downward, and to prolong
the lovemaking. The specific postures and art of foreplay are natural
extensions of heightened awareness and deepening trust, a moment to moment act of
co-creation.
This could entail foreplay to expand or heighten the energy.
It’s easier for a man to hold his semen if he works at a slower pace. In the
same way, a woman becomes much more receptive and open with loving foreplay.
If the woman gets too caught up in her own release in the
heat of the moment she may jeopardize the man’s ability to hold it and retain
his vital energies. Likewise, if he gets inundated with the pleasure feeling
too early while moving inside the woman, he will lose his semen and will not be
able to continue the love-making in the same way. In such cases, to facilitate a
more energetic union, some pacts should be made between partners before
lovemaking. For example, if the man decides that he does not want to release
during the lovemaking, the woman should take care not to tip him over the edge
with her orgasm. In this case she will need to withhold it completely as it is
generally very difficult for a man not to ejaculate when the woman is in the
midst of her orgasm. Rather than this being a frustration for her, she can
develop her sexual potency during this period to enliven her own being and her
partner’s by channeling her own energy upward. Of
course, if the man is adept at holding his semen and this is not a problem,
then the pact need not be made. The benefits of such
agreements on the woman’s part outweighs any quick release from either
party. A similar pact could be made from the woman’s side if she does not want
to orgasm during the lovemaking, in which the man agrees not to over-stimulate
her.
Partner’s exploration of each other becomes an essential
and joyful co-creation in the tantric dance. It can evolve, deepen and even
change as synced with their natural contact energy in the moment. This requires
an agile sensitivity and intimate communication with one’s partner.
Given the volatile nature of man’s energy and the deep
receptivity of the woman’s there is a certain optimal dance that results in
unfolding the maximum possible exchange between partners. This is a sacred dance: a magic of
commingling, ‘tis our birthright, but also yet rarely explored to its
potential.
Some esoteric practices:
Orgasmic upward draw
for women, as described in Taoist texts, is a technique “by which women may direct the energy of
orgasm inward and upward through the spinal energy channels, so that the sexual
energy spreads to all parts of the body and into all the vital organs via the
meridian network. Not only does this conserve energy and tone the organs, it
results in a total body orgasm that only women are capable of.”
The technique: “Sit and perform a few minutes of bellows
breathing*. Then inhale slowly and deeply and hold maha bandh...(contracting
anus (mool bandh),
perineum and vagina, and applying neck (jaalundhar bandh) and abdominal locks (uddhiyaan bandh) as well). Then slowly exhale
through the nostrils as one gently releases all locks and relax all muscles and
visualizes energy moving up the spine. After practicing, and when some
proficiency is gained, this can be practiced in actual sex before orgasm.” *See
supplementary section on exercises following for detailed description of bandhs and
breathing exercises.
A woman may need to manage her compulsion to have the man
release regularly inside her. This primal urge is born of a biological need to
reproduce which will generally not allow partners to shine in their full
energetic glory. When procreation is not the goal of sexual union, such
compulsion tends to put undue pressure on the man to release, which may
conflict with his practice of holding his ojas to attain a higher space of
consciousness. If the man is okay with this, or is a master at holding semen, then
this is not such an issue. Similarly, if he has an inexhaustible supply of ojas, then this
is not a problem. But partners should take an honest look at whether this is
true or not. As Sun Ssu-mo’s advice goes (and a reminder of what has been
mentioned earlier), men should take care regarding ejaculation:
- By
the age of 30, a man begins to lose vitality and should stop squandering
his semen recklessly.
- By
the age of 40, a man has reached the critical turning point in his life.
If he wishes to prevent the rapid downhill slide into the grave which
undisciplined sexual relations cause at this stage in life, he must now
start practicing ejaculation control as a habit.
- Each
and every time a man restrains himself and retains his semen it is like
adding new oil to a lamp that is about to extinguish. But if a man fails
to control himself and ejaculates every time he lies down with a woman, it
is like removing oil from a lamp that is already nearly burnt out. (“The
Tao of Health, Sex and Longevity” by Daniel Reid.)
This passage specifically cites the dangers to longevity and
health, but also indirectly includes the hit to the vitality of the energy (praanic) body,
which is this paper’s focus.
A man’s praanic potential can become compromised when he indulges in
the pleasure of release repeatedly, a fact compounded perhaps by a woman’s
craving for his seed inside her and his need to please her. Thus, the man may
have a double hurdle to surmount with the help of his partner. Frequent discharge changes the space in his body,
weakens the backbone at the lower spine, resulting in a grosser level manifestation
into semen (liquid) rather than air (space/energy).
The man’s sexual aura shines brightest when he has raised his
energy past the navel point. This builds ojas rather than letting it flow
downwards into semen. Similarly the woman’s energy gets built when the praan rises past
her navel into higher chakras; which in turn, has the power of raising her
partner’s energy, or vice-versa. However, there is the bonus she has of being
able to orgasm without noticeable energy loss. *At times after having orgasm,
she may lose the urge to keep up the sexual pace and excitement in the same
way, so this is something to observe.
If either party is too attached to their orgasm then the sex
energy will not rise past the navel to its fullest potential. This results in
the man’s early release and premature end of the love-making process, and the magic
praanic
space that could arise. From the woman’s side, this results in tipping the man
over the edge, or her dominating the space around her needs and creating stress
in the love-making process.
A slow build of energy and trust (letting go) is favoured;
also, application of the proper techniques and working with the physiological
limits of man and woman.
Conclusions
Men and women operate in different ways during sex; they
play different roles in activating the kundalini
shakti. Yet the height
of union is the same if the proper techniques are applied and full opening
takes place.
It’s safe to say that the two main hindrances for raising sexual
energy revolve around the male orgasm:
—when the man excessively indulges in his
own orgasm.
—when the woman desires the man’s orgasm
beyond his means.
If partners deepen their understanding of each other through
their exploration and practice, more scope is there to enliven the kundalini and raise energy during union.
The other factor that promotes sexual openings is cultivating
positive emotions towards partners such as appreciation, affection, attention,
acceptance and allowance. These are
matured and conscientious responses to fear, attachment, control and
entitlement. (see How to be an Adult in Relationships, The
five keys to mindful loving by David Richo).
Also to consider are proper diet, moderate eating, unblocking
energy and expanding praan
through regular exercise can also facilitate greater openings. These practices
combined with greater awareness, stillness, open and authentic communication, meditation
and praanayam
techniques can set the stage for partners achieving higher spaces.
When energetic bonds build between partners, there can also
be a tendency for the deepest traces of shadow to emerge, which when worked
through with compassion, can become a bridge to deeper, more ecstatic union.
These shadow issues can include control issues, jealousies, power struggles, taking
a partner for granted, any number of irrational behaviours, or extreme
emotions. These are often tempered by honest and open communication between
partners and working on one’s shadow with the loving support of one’s partner.
One successful sexual opening can lift a person out of their
shadow side for a period of time. As one vibrates at a higher frequency, this
results in a more powerful of self which assists in burning the deepest layers
of conditioning (or sanskaar). By understanding these
principles of tantric yog, working
together, and following some of the practices and exercises outlined here,
partners can enhance their sexual experience, bringing them closer to the
experience of enlightenment.
It’s the authors’ hope that these insights and techniques
will provide useful means to raise energy and explore the sexual heights to
their fullest and most of all, bring joy to the practice!
Contributors:
C. Turner & S. Montford:
Chris has been devoted to a practice of meditation for many
years which has guided his creative life path in teaching, visual arts, music,
writing, computer science and more recently to the calling of empowering others
to shine in their uniqueness.
Suzanne follows a path of aliveness. She lives and teaches Yanumoja Yoga, a tantric/shamanic practice of tapping into
one’s inner wisdom to inspire life direction and authentic expression.
The next section focuses on specific practices which can aid
in the development of higher consciousness and enlivening the act of sex. *Sections on Praanayam,
Naulis and Bandhs are taken
from unpublished writings of ‘Revelations on the unfoldment
of God Consciousness through Spiritual Practice’ by Swami Shyam.
Supplementary
exercises for men and women.
Here are some esoteric practices which practiced daily can aid
in heightened sex energy:
Visualizations
- Visualizing
one’s aura with a large powerful circumference, either permeating a partner’s
being, or emanating from one’s own. Variations can include visualizing a
radiant energy or light or colour moving up the body, or heat building in
the core. Likewise, the heart flooding with energy of intoxicating nature.
Or maintaining that feeling of excitement that comes from blissful union
with one’s partner.
- Visualizing
the act of sex with one’s partner, creating whatever space feels the most
desirable: ecstatic, healing, rejuvenating, electrifying, melting, or any
combination.
It’s not just in the physical act of sex that we can build
our sexual aura. We can do it in formal meditation or any space of
visualization. A person can build the potential between his or her partner at
any time. If the quality of feeling and heightened awareness is created in the
visualized act, a person can bring the higher feeling with one when one’s
having sex. It’s a practice which benefits both partners...
There is more to sex than a physical joining of bodies as
many can attest. The physical side is only on the surface. The actual
coalescing or mixing of male and female energies makes up the major part. It’s
interesting to note that the same sensations and sexual high that occur in real
sex can be stirred in dream. Upon waking from an intense sexual dream, for
example, one remembers intimately what happened. One wonders what can be done
consciously with this power of visualization without a physical partner. When a
man and woman with high polarity are in close proximity, for example, the
energy can be so high to raise their kundalini
energy. In the same way, strains of ‘sex’ can happen with clothes on if a
person of developed visualization channels their attention. This channelling of
excitement and imagination is what brings partners closer together in the first
place. It can be made a practice, by creating the same feeling while sitting in
meditation, for example, and holding the thought of sex or potency and
excitement in the consciousness. As a prelude to sex, for example, even as a
supplementary exercise, partners can visualize themselves having sex, raising kundalini in their own bodies. They can visualize
one’s aura with a large powerful circumference also. These visualizations can
aid, and any other creative ones, practiced in a formal sitting posture or in
the space with a partner.
Such channelling helps build the power of intent and prepares
the beings for actual joining. It can propel partners on to a higher path than just
a physical joining—more a merging of the consciousness into the absolute, which
opens the heart and lifts the energy into higher realms, while transforming the
body at a cellular level.
Visualization gains power when the image, feeling, or
energetic manifestation can be held in the consciousness for a longer period of
time, and invariably without interruption. This power is developed through
meditation. A technique is given in the Patanjali Yog Sutras:
Dhyaan or meditation is the effortless flow of attention on one object,
space or vibration.
Meditation, then, is given as a formal means for manifesting
visualization fruits: holding the thought or image in the mind and bringing the
attention back to the object (image) if the mind wavers. Any creative image or
visualization bringing energy or power or concentration or connection is
worthwhile. The more personalized the image, the more attractive is the draw
toward the image and generally the deeper we go. So creativity is encouraged.
Praanayam
Holding the breath
in and out is an ancient art that builds vital energies (ojas), strength in the body and sexual energy.
4-16-8 regular breathing
- Breath in through the nose for a count of 4.
- Hold the breath for a count of 16.
- Breathe out through the nose for a count
of 8.
- Repeat the cycle as many times as you
like.
Benefits: promotes longevity,
balances the energy in body and allows kundalini
to rise.
Brahmaree: The humming breath
- Take a full deep breath.
- Breathe out through the nose humming 'mmmm'.
- Repeat the cycle as many times as you
like.
Benefits: joy arises
in the head and heart’ the mind becomes unwavering and established in the Bliss
of the Absolute Space.
Kaival kumbhak
- Let the breath stop at any point in the
breathing cycle.
- Hold for as long as comfortably
possible.
Benefits: Kayval kumbhak is the king
amongst all types of kumbhak (breath stillness). It
gives greater longevity, brings perfection and results in samaadhi (blissful awareness). Its advantages are innumerable. When kayval kumbhak takes place then
all other types of kumbhak are of less value, just as
when the sun rises, all the stars disappear from the
sky. Kayval kumbhak is the
root of all the techniques of yog and is practiced by
the best of yogis. The perfection of kayval kumbhak burns all sins, removes darkness an
produces knowledge or light. Ignorance in the form of duality is removed and
the Vision of Oneness is attained.
Moorcha kumbhak
- Inhale through both nostrils with a
sound like showering rain.
- Immediately after the inhalation, tip
the head until the chin rests on the notch in the neck.
- Hold the breath in.
- Release the breath slowly through the
nose.
- Repeat the cycle as many times as you
like.
Benefits: rejuvenates the whole body and creates a state of
happiness. With practice, the breath is controlled and many diseases are
removed.
Incremental breathing
- Hold
breath at any point and keep watching.
- When
urge comes to breathe, take in only a tiny, tiny, tiny bit of air...like
.1mm. Watch.
- Keep
watching and when the urge comes to breathe, don’t take full breath, again
take only a tiny, tiny bit of air. This can be a short in-out breath or out-in breath.
- Continue
in this fashion as long as possible or desired.
Benefits: opens the consciousness very quickly and deeply. Paves way for Kaival kumbhak.
Promotes the ability of breathing in through the thought and breathing
out through the thought, without the need for air. It is in this fourth
dimensional type of breathing that wave comes in and wave goes out as if
breathing is taking place but no motion is occurring or air is taken in, and
the body is relaxed and there is not the desire or need to take in air or
breathe. This is a very high level of praanayam and has untold benefits. Used in conjunction with
other praanayams, many powerful spaces of opening can
occur and mind is completely transformed to space.
Bhastrika kumbhak,
(bellows breath)
- Inhale
deeply through the nose.
- Using
the muscles in the abdomen, forcibly exhale a short burst of air through
the nose.
- Pause,
then breathe in a little bit of air through the nose and again forcibly
exhale a short burst of air through the nose.
- Gradually
increase the tempo until you are very rapidly inhaling and exhaling - like
a blacksmith would work his bellow to stoke the fire. By this time, count out 20-30 short,
rapid bellow-like breaths.
- Inhale
deeply and hold the breath in for as long as you can.
Benefits: all diseases caused by wind, heat and phlegm are
destroyed. The praanic fire is increased and the kundalini is very easily aroused.
Chanting/Repeating mantras
Repeating certain Sanskrit sounds like Om Raam Shiv Shyam, or Shyam Narayan Hari
Narayan or Govinda Raadhay Raadhay Shyam, Gopaala Raadhay Raadhay Shyam either audibly or inside as internal mantras can
open up the energy channels and raise the kundalini,
thus promoting heightened sex energy. Repeating affirmations like “I am the universal shakti”
or “I am divine love” or “I am pure energy, fire, and free expression”
work in the same way. Prior to love-making, chanting mantras can be an effective
way to promote heightened spaces.
Bhands (locks)/Naulis/Rotators
Abdominal Lift (stomach nauli)
- Stand
with legs apart. Inhale deeply and exhale completely keeping the breath
held out.
- Bend
forward and place the hands on the knees.
- Draw
the abdominal muscles in and up forming a cavity in the pelvic area. The
further you draw these muscles in the better.
- Hold
for as long as you are comfortable.
- Slowly
release the muscles and inhale.
Variations:
Once adequate control is gained, the muscles can be pumped
in and out in rapid succession. They can also be rotated from right to left and
from left to right.
Benefits:
This is the best exercise for firming and strengthening the
entire solar plexus area. This action massages and tones all the internal
organs. A very important exercise to be done daily.
Bandhs
For esoteric circle to practice daily in
order to recast the whole frame.
1. Mool Bandh
When the mouth or hole of the anus and the generative organ
is closed consciously and completely, this is called mool
bandh. This is done by the will which exercises its
power and squeezes the inner muscles of both organs to the fullest extent
inward. It is always effected best in sidhasan or half lotus with the right foot on the left
thigh and the left foot on the ground with the heel under the generative organ.
Results:
The apaan vayu (vayu—that power which moves or causes movement), the air
that starts rising upward, meets another air called praan vayu at the navel point. In this process
the coiled kundalini becomes straight and rises higher. If practised, mool bandh will remove
indigestion and make you feel satisfied in yourself. Whatever you eat tastes
good and ojas
is taken to the brain. Those who are good yogis not only practice it at the
time of meditation but they hold it always.
2. Uddhiyan Bandh
Grasp the legs just above the knees. Take a deep breath,
exhale fully and keep the breath suspended. Draw the stomach muscle as a whole
inside and squeeze it to the extent that it sticks to the spine. A pit in the
stomach should appear. The more the stomach muscles are held inward the better.
Due to this bandh, the praan
or jeev begins to fly like a bird toward sushmana and because the praan
takes flight, the bandh is called uddhiyan,
meaning flight.
Results:
Praan and semen run upward to the
brain; loss of indigestion; increase in appetite; lungs become strong and
function with great power.
3. Jaalundhar Bandh
Bring the chin down to touch the top of the chest and press
it so strongly that between the chin and the heart only four fingers distance
remains. The chest and shoulders will remain erect while practicing. This
exercise keeps the network of the nerves in the neck tight and bound. Therefore
it derives its name.
Results:
The voice becomes sweet, attract and melodious. Ida and pingala become closed and praan enters into sushmana. The nose becomes free from blockage.
4. Maha Bandh
First method: Apply the heel against the generative organ
and press the right foot against the left thigh. Sit straight. Feel which
nostril is opened. From the open nostril breath in, hold the breath and apply jaalundhar bandh. While doing so,
attract the air or vayu from mooladhar
chakra as much as possible and apply mool bandh also. In this way you have applied:
1. Kumbhak (breath suspension)
2. Jaalundhar bandh, and
3. Mool bandh
When you are about to release the breath from the lock of kumbhak, use the other nostril and exhale the air slowly
through the nose. Do this praanayam whenever you are
applying the maha bandh.
Second method: Sit in padmaasan
(lotus posture) and squeeze mool bandh.
Raise the apaan vayu to the
navel point, breathe in the praan vayu and bring it to the navel point. Apply kumbhak for as long as you can.
Results:
The praan rises higher;
purification of the ojas;
the three nadis
(ida, pingala and sushmana)
meet together; will power and strength are increased.
*Author’s note: Caution... Maha bandh can create tension in spine. Moderation and listening
to one’s intuition is recommended.
Rotators:
(variation on the stomach nauli)
- Sit in
a comfortable position.
- Apply mool and uddhiyan bandh while releasing air from lungs.
- Do hula hoop movements at waist counter clockwise or
clockwise while continuing to squeeze the abdominal muscles inwards and
resting the buttocks on the ground.
- Repeat
the circular motion as many times as possible.
- When feeling
need to breathe, breath in, exhale slowly and repeat the exercise as many
times as desired.
Results:
Increases sexual energy. Benefits
are similar to a nauli, but in a sitting position
versus a stooped position.
The entire solar plexus area is worked and ojas is squeezed
upwards.
Comments on
supplementary exercises:
There is not any one of the above practices which is more important
than the other. It’s best to experiment with all of them and choose those
practices which bring the best results. Different practices will benefit
different people in varying degrees. All are beneficial in raising praan and enhancing
the sexual experience.
The key is daily practice and adherence to the philosophy of
continually raising the praan
or energy upwards.
Final wishes
May the powers of Shiv and Shakti flow through us,
May we cultivate the greatest
respect for the universal Shakti,
Which
allows the highest awareness to flow through us,
And brings great powers
of being,
Powers we bring to the
playground of our bodies,
Which are our gifts
and birthrights!